TITLE: Tonia Zimmerman and Sandra Finley, Facebook exchange Nov 29, 2013 to December 27. The complaint and follow through.
November 29, 2013
Tonia Zimmerman (Facebook)
Hello Sandra,
I am sorry to be a bother, but there’s something I need to bring to your attention. I am a Green Party voter, proudly, since I was legal voting age. Nothing can ever change that.
But I am gravely concerned that this party I believe in is being represented by Ashu Solo. I say this because, when I disagreed with Mr. Solo in a public forum (about public prayer), I began receiving threatening and vulgar messages. I am attaching a “screen capture” of only some of the messages he sent me. The messages increased in their ferocity until I blocked him.
I felt like these messages were at least partially motivated by gender, as he attacked my looks very centrally in all his messages. I would strongly suggest the Green Party re-think their affiliation with Mr. Solo, because he may have sent other messages to other people with whom he disagreed. I believe he is a liability to the party, and, on a personal level as a woman, a terrifying figure.
Thank you for hearing me out.
Tonia
(See Tonia’s documentation for a copy of the F/B exchanges that were attached)
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- December 2, 2013
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Tonia Zimmerman
The harassment has continued since I started going public. E-mailing you images now. Ashu Solo has started two blogs personally defaming me, using private posts on Facebook about my life as ammunition. Please, I’ll do whatever he asks, just please get him to stop defaming me like this! Should he really be using Green Party resources to say such hurtful things? Please, get him to remove these messages!
(See Tonia’s documentation for a copy of the F/B exchanges that were attached)
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- December 5, 2013
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Tonia Zimmerman
Hi Sandra,
Sorry to seem like a broken record, but the harassment from Mr. Solo hasn’t stopped. He threatened to create more websites defaming me, unless I acquiesced. I am attaching proof of these interactions. Out of sheer fear, I deleted my twitter account, and also this Facebook account (which I have reopened to write you).
Perhaps you think I’m a quack, or unbalanced or whatever Ashu says about me. I can’t stop you from thinking what you want. However, these e-mails are real. And this is the work of someone who currently controls valuable Green party assets. Please don’t let him turn your party into his own soapbox.
Even if you don’t care about a single women being taunted and tortured, please think of the negative PR this man will generate for your party.
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Tonia, Can I speak with you by phone? I moved to B.C. August 1.
I continue to work with the Greens in Sask, and will be out 2 or 3 times a year. The things you are telling me need to be dealt with.
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12/9, 9:16am-
Tonia Zimmerman
Hi Sandra,
I apologize for what may seem like secrecy, but I would prefer to keep our correspondence in writing for the time being–I have had conversations misrepresented in the past, and would prefer to keep a written record. Not to foster mistrust–I DO trust you, and am endlessly glad you view this as a serious matter–but also so I can remember what all I have told you.
Is there a way one could wrest control of the Official Facebook and Twitter pages from him? Perhaps by starting new ones?
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- December 9, 2013
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Hi Tonia,
There is no problem maintaining a written record. It is a good way to proceed.
I approach this as a complaint; the Green Party has procedures to follow, which should ensure a fair and just outcome. It is also the best insurance against the thing you have identified: “conversations misrepresented”.
I am acquainted with people and procedures in the Green Party. I think my role is to act as a facilitator in this case, to forward the complaint to the right people.
It will not be beneficial to you if I intervene in any other way; I believe that Ashu Solo would claim it as evidence that I have a vendetta against him, which is not true. My concern is about relationships in the Green Party. How he conducts himself in realms that do not affect the Green Party, do not concern me. (Simultaneously I feel strongly about bullying, and the need to challenge and stop it in our society – – it is a form of violence.)
If you wish to proceed with a complaint I will see that it is put into confidential and competent hands in the Green Party of Canada.
In order to determine a possible timeline, I contacted a person I know in the Federal GPC organization, providing what I hope is a basic statement of facts, but WITH NO NAMES. I sought information to bring back to you. As it turns out, there is a meeting this coming weekend (in Ottawa, I believe, or it will be a conference call), of the appropriate small group of people who would review the complaint as a first step.
Please advise me whether you wish to proceed. If you do, the documentation should be forwarded as soon as possible, in time for the meeting agenda.
Thank-you Tonia. Best wishes, Sandra
- December 10, 2013
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Tonia Zimmerman
Hello Sandra,
This seems like the wisest course of action. I absolutely want to proceed. Thank you.
Tonia
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NOTE: Tonia said “I want to proceed” on Dec 10th. I submitted
Complaint #1, her complaint, on Dec 8th. It was serious and needed to be addressed. I came to my senses – – the decision to proceed was HERS to make, not mine. Had she decided not to proceed, the complaint would have been withdrawn.= = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = =
NOTE:Dec 4, Saskatoon Radio TalkShow host John Gormleyemailed Ashu telling him that he would take Ashu’s record to the airwaves if Gormley heard of another incident by Ashu against Tonia Zimmerman or two other unnamed women. Gormley sent a copy of the email to Zimmerman.I KNEW NOTHING ABOUT THIS PARTICIPATION BY JOHN GORMLEY UNTIL JANUARY 6TH. I BELIEVE THAT ASHU DID NOT KNOW WHETHER I KNEW ABOUT IT.Dec 8, I submitted the Zimmerman complaint to the GPC and GPS.Dec 10th, Ashu began the email assault against me.= = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = =-
Tonia Zimmerman
So should I forward the documentation to you? Or is there a form to fill out?
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Sandra Finley
Hi Tonia,
I left a message with GPC requesting instructions. My guess is that you will forward the documentation directly, yourself. I will let you know as soon as I hear.
It is possible that Patricia (Farnese) has sufficient material already. However, given the seriousness of this matter, I would recommend that you “take charge”, so to speak. It is not worth the risk that someone else (busy with the details of their own life) might not have all the details. It will be best to have water-tight explanation, from the start – to the extent possible.
I can help, if you like, by asking questions. One that comes to mind: can it be established that the messages are from Ashu (I am thinking of the ones in which I assume he is using a different name)?
Two, if my understanding is correct, I think this is an important point: Google your name: the web presence that has been created is such that everything that comes up is the (false and defaming) statements by Ashu??
Three: how much power do you have to defend yourself? (You would have to be savvy with internet technology, and have a lot of time to spare, to be able to launch a defence against the false claims. How does one even go about taking down the blog he put up?)
Four: if you do take more steps, are you concerned or fearful that Ashu will only make it worse for you? Has he threatened to make it worse? (provide the messages that make the case – – intimidation, coercion, threats are very serious matters under the Law.)
Those are some thoughts that come to mind, Tonia.
The documentation doesn’t have to be perfect. Those are just some thoughts. And alas! it needs to be done before the weekend.
It might be easiest to think of it in terms of: a. This is the point I want to make, and b. Here is the evidence to support my point.
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Sandra
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- December 11, 2013
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Tonia Zimmerman
Thank you for your help Sandra. I will get working on this.
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Tonia Zimmerman
Hello Sandra. I have completed my write-up. I have put it on a private blog, which can only be accessed by people who I invite to it. Can you please give me the pertinent e-mail addresses, so they may hear my story?
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Sandra Finley
Good Tanya. I will ask for instruction and get back to you.
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- December 13, 2013
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Tonia Zimmerman
Hi Sandra,
Thank you for putting me in contact with Patricia. I really appreciate it.
I feel very bad that your hearing me out on these complaints has put you in the crosshairs. I suppose it’s a validation of my experience, that you are now experiencing similar things, but the last thing I wished was for him to find a new target.
I don’t think Ashu has any real chance of a civil suit, but he does like to threaten them. Whatever has been said in the past, all I have done is document the very real things he has said and done. I’ll admit I may have been dismissive of his lawsuits against the city (that’s what started all this) but there’s just no way his responses have been proportionate, or appropriate.
And that, to me, is really what this is all about. To some extent, it is irrelevant what others say to us, what shows character is in how we react to it. Ashu felt I was dismissive or disagreeable to his positions, and he went after my looks, and mocked my struggles with depression. I showed people evidence of what he’d said, and he threatened my livelihood. However justified he feels he is, these are not the actions fitting public service.
I think of Elizabeth May, and the hate she is dealt every day from her political opponents. But, as a true leader, she stays above the fray, and focuses on policy, and in doing so, shows her own character. Ashu has chosen a life in the public eye, demanding media attention for his every thought or action–so when he abuses other people, he has more or less asked for these things to also be publicized. I know it’s hard to hold to a higher standard, but it’s nothing new in Canadian politics. Especially when you’re talking about the Green Party, a party that has prided itself on NOT being politics as usual
As far as I know, there is no law in documenting harassment, or, for that matter, disseminating it (though to be safe, I have taken down any public documentation of his writing). I haven’t defamed Ashu Solo anywhere at any time. I have given my opinions on him, or shared links talking about him (and his possibly illegal world conference activities with Hamid Arabnia) but there is nothing illegal about that.
As for your investigations into Mr. Solo, I’ve done some of my own, and was further shocked and frightened by what I uncovered. You phrased it very well–what I learned (if true) really shook me, and made me all the more frightened of this man.
I’m not sure how much I should get into here, but once I learned his true identity (his birth name) a lot of things fell into place. (I want to be careful how I phase this) in my opinion, you are correct when you say his claims about himself may be largely concocted. I can tell you more of what I have heard (only being able to conclusively prove parts of it, at least until someone gets their hands on a police report or two) if you are interested. I am keenly interested in what you have uncovered.
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December 13, 2013 -
When time permits I’ll find my earlier material and put it on a protected page on my blog. You’ll be able to access it by code.
Do not worry about drawing me into this fracas. I feel badly for you! My Green friend and I had hoped that we might have convinced Ashu that the Green Party was not a good place for him. But he is persistent. And has a couple of supporters. He can be convincing when he wants something.
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Tonia Zimmerman
You are wise not to reply. I think you’re right, it would only further incite him. I look forward to reading your information.
Ashu’s main problem is that he lies so often–you’re so right about him ignoring the substantive part of his complaints. He could say that I was being unkind or dismissive toward him, and it would actually be true. Instead he accuses me of racism or bigotry or libel, all of which are completely untrue, and it renders him completely incredible.
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Politics is a tough, but necessary game – – as I see things in the world today.
Numbers of people join political parties because they are opportunists, with delusions that they can get elected. I think that Ashu is likely unemployed.
We definitely have people who join for the purpose of undermining the Green movement, or Elizabeth May. It’s not an easy thing – – they tend to be smooth and come with offerings of assistance that are hard to resist. We are almost ALL volunteers.
There are those and then there are the destructive basket cases.
The worst thing is that in the Green Party AND in other organizations, good people can be driven out – – they feel their time is better used in productive pursuit. And so “the cause” is devolved into less and less capable hands.
It takes effort to hold everyone together. As I view it, we do not have to be “inclusive” to the point of self-destruction. We need to acknowledge our vulnerability and fight for the survival of the group. “”Women Who Run with the Wolves”!
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Tonia Zimmerman
Hi Patricia. The blogs about my character have started up again. I’m deleting my Facebook and twitter accounts. You can still get a hold of me at (INSERT, Sandra – – removed) . This is just getting to be too much. https://sites.google.com/site/toniazimmermansaskatoon/ http://toniazimmerman.wordpress.com/
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